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NWR Rant

So...I moved 8 hours away from my hometown (NYC)  in order to attend a wonderful graduate school for social work. It has been a nightmare since I've arrived here. My apartment has been a hot mess, I am literally lost all the time, I haven't had a decent night's sleep, and my new neighbors are not friendly AT ALL. The only thing that has made this process bearable is my FI, without him, I think I would have lost it within the first four days of coming here. 

During my application process to this school, none of the admissions officers told me that I had to have a car in the city, in fact, they told me that the public transportation was reliable. I believed them. They also stated that it would not affect my field placement throughout my time there. I was given a few options for field placements, and I thought that I had found the perfect placement involving community treatment support, which is up my alley. 

Today, I traveled to an interview to my "perfect" placement (it was a hellish ordeal because I had no idea where I was going direction-wise). The interview went great, but I realized something was off. When I went to give the interviewer the placement confirmation form, he said, I want your team manager to sign it. Then the interviewer said that he'd get back to me by Monday with information, because the only reason I'd be eliminated was because I don't drive/have a car. I brushed it off until I got an email from my school's field placement advisor asking if I was offered the position and if I had the form signed. Clearly I did not obtain the position, and now I feel duped. I wasted my time, my energy, and I am feeling drained at this point. I don't know where to go from here, or what I should tell my field placement advisor because his ideas for other placements didn't really seem to match my skill sets or would not provide me with the learning experience I want to gain while here. 

Sorry for the rant. I just needed to get this off my chest before I took it out on anyone. 

Re: NWR Rant

  • Don't be sorry for the rant! Better get it out in a controlled way then having a melt down and ruining relationships!

    I hope things get better and you figure out the placement situation. It is a huge bummer that they said public transportation is reliable and that is not the case in your field study.

    Try and stay positive. I bet something good will come out of it! :)
  • That does suck, and feel free to rant.  It is annoying that your field placement advisor has been misleading you, and it comes at your expense.  And public transit in North America sort of sucks . . . I was lucky that I did school in the Netherlands, where public transit is really reliable. 
    What's up with your apartment and why aren't you sleeping?  Is it because of stress?  I hope you get that figured out - I don't know how you are, but I can't function without sleep at all. 

  • @kerbohl, as for the lack of sleep: our neighbor used to enjoy listening to/watching porn on his 3D surround sound television at 3 AM. We've since bought him TV headphones (left discreetly at his door), and there hasn't been noise since. 

    As for the placement, I took another one that was offered. Its definitely better than the other one.  I think the most stressful part of the semester was finding out that I was pregnant, and making the choice to keep our baby. That being said, I have been doing awesome in school, and kicking butt at my placement. Its strange how things work themselves out, and I am glad they did! 
  • I'm curious about why this thread got no responses between August and December.  But... congratulations on your new addition and your success at your placement!
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