Hi! Hope everyone's having a great holiday season
Just wanted to share:
FI sat down with his mom this week to hammer out their side of the guest list. They have a large family, most of whom FI doesn't like. Since it's his second wedding we're keeping the "obligation" invites to a minimum, or trying to.
FI has a first cousin who is married, and they exhibit fairly reprehensible behavior. FI loathes Cousin for a variety of reasons. Months back when FI changed his Facebook status to engaged, among the congratulatory comments was Cousin offering to DJ our wedding. FI never responded. Come to find out, Cousin and his wife and his sister told FI's aunt they'd boycott the wedding because FI wouldn't let Cousin be the DJ.
Can you believe it? FMIL said even she doesn't want drama at the wedding and said she'd find out the latest on the status of this supposed boycott. Her sister's kids are absolutely an "obligation invite" but if we can cut three jerks from the guest list, awesome.
Considering I never even want to meet these people based on what I've heard, well, merry Christmas to me!
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