My best friend and I met our fiances within a few weeks of each other. He proposed to her this past August and I got engaged last month. My best friend is getting married November 2014 and has asked me to be a bridesmaid. My fiance and I want to get married in October, but that would be a month before my best friend's wedding. I'd like to ask her to be my maid of honor. Is this ok to do? The summer was too soon for us to get married, we didn't want to have a winter wedding and we thought Spring 2015 would too long of an engagement. We're not getting any younger- I'm 31 and my fiance is 34 and we'd like to start a family shortly after we're married. Would it be disrespectful or rude of me to plan a wedding a month before hers and also ask her to be my maid of honor? help! honest feedback please!