So, I have shoulder length hair but I know for our wedding that I want to wear it up. We aren't getting married for a year and a half so I definitely have the time to grow my hair out if I wanted to but I know that I look better with my hair a bit shorter. Would you just buy clip-in extensions to add some length to use for an updo or grow your own hair out since that is obviously free? I just hate the thought of having longer hair for the whole year leading up to our wedding (not looking like I normally do) conversely I hate the thought of spending hundreds of dollars on extensions when I can grow my own hair out for free. I hope that makes sense?