We prefer to not have any children at our wedding, how do I make this clear when I send out invites? I read that on the invitation envelopes if children were invited it would say " Mr. & Mrs. Joe Smith & Family". So I assume that the names of only those invited on the envelope is clear cut. I've got everyone's significant others names so that I can put it right on the envelope, since we are not going to have a "plus one" space on the RSVP card. So my question is, how have others with a no children wedding handled this?