I'm interested in having a unity candle ceremony that involes our guests. The candles would be on the guests chairs and the ushers would light one on the end of each row and the guests would pass the flame (like at a Christmas Eve church service). The flame works its way up to the parents and then the mothers would light our individual candles so that we can light our unity candle. Each guests candle represents their support in the couples marriage. We would have the quartet playing in the background and the officiant talking about what the candle symbolizes. Has anyone been to a ceremony that did this? What's the opinion?