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Brother/Sister Dance.... Is it too much?


I'm considering after the Father/Daughter dance doing a Brother/Sister dance. My younger brother is the world to me and has been my rock through out my life. But it is too much or inappropriate to do, and is it possible that my Father may feel like the moment we've waited for since I was little is less important? I wanted to get some feed back before I bring it up to family. Thanks for your input!
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Re: Brother/Sister Dance.... Is it too much?
If you are going to do your first dance with your H, Father/ daughter, brother/ sister and H/ mother, then yes I think it is way too much. Wathcing first dances is really boring for your guests. Can you dance with your dad and then have yoru brother cut in?
I think it's a bit too much. You can still dance with your brother without making a big thing of it or having it a solo dance. Everyone is just standing around bored if you do a lot of solo dances.
Neither FI nor I like to dance. So, even for my father-daughter dance and we plan to have it solo for 20-30 seconds tops then have everyone join in. Then FI plans to dance with his mom, but we aren't making it solo. He will choose a specific song for it, and we will probably have the DJ announce it, but let everyone else join in right from the start. Maybe that will work for you. Announce that its a special song, dedicated to your brother, and dance with him, but let everyone else dance too.
Edited for bad grammar & spelling
emmyg65 said: I agree with this 100%.