Hello all!
Neither my fiancé or I are interested in strippers or clubs and while my MOH will make sure I'm happy with my girls night I know at least 2 of his GM will fight for a strip club party or strippers in some capacity.
One of them is a serial cheater and all around asshat and the other is just not interested in monogamy and loves strip clubs. My Fi assures me he's not interested in strippers and just wants to go for drinks and mini putt and bowling downtown. I trust him not to do anything but I wouldn't put it past them to "surprise him" and/or drag him to a club because he's not driving. He's a sweet guy and rarely sticks up for himself or makes his displeasure known, he's more likely to just go with it and not cause a problem. How do I make sure his GM will understand he wants to just have a chill night and relax without seeming like it's because of me? One of them already hates me because I don't tolerate his crap. Once I got his gf a job with me and she asked why I dislike him and I told her it's because he has cheated before and been a dick about it and he yelled at me because he had told her he'd never cheated before. I don't try to stop my FI from seeing him because they've been friends a long long time and I trust him to go for drinks without doing anything stupid but if he gets together with the other GM I worry about I wouldn't put it past them to sneak a stripper in somewhere.
Someone tell me I'm not crazy.