Hey ladies!
I am my good friend's MOH. She has been engaged for nearly 2 years so I have had a lot of time to plan the bridal shower for her. Her wedding is in March and she told me she preferred to have her shower the day before her wedding so that all of her friends and family would be in town. She also was absolutely adamant that her shower be a gift-free shower and that people bring family recipes instead - I gently tried to explain that a shower is called a shower because you are showered with gifts, but she was extremely adamant. About a month ago her FSIL emails me and asks for all the the BP's addresses because she is going to throw a shower as well. I was surprised, but went ahead and gave it to her.
I think it's awesome that my friend gets to have 2 showers, but I am worried that we will be inviting many of the same people, she didn't ask for my invite list (I sent it to her anyways, just telling her FYI) so I don't know.
The other thing is that at the bottom of the invite it says where she is registered... so I guess there will be gifts???
So I guess what I'm asking: Is it okay to invite the same person to two different showers for the same bride? If not, what am I supposed to do about this? I have not sent my invites yet but will soon.