Proposals
7 months later and no proposal
Last V-Day after a HUGE fight my boyfriend yells at me that he was going to propose that night. (I was on new birth control so I was a little crazy that night). Anyway, I was totally excited but told him later that he should wait until the fight passes and I am not expecting it. Well, Ive been expecting it for the last 7 months since then and he still has not asked. After going to his brothers wedding together I am finally at a bitter point and just angry about the whole thing. I feel like its ruined now because Ive had too much time to dwell on it. I wish I never knew about it. How do I get past this bump I dont want to feel like this anymore.
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Re: 7 months later and no proposal
TTC #1 since August 2011
MFI Diagnosis - April 2012
IVF #1 - July 2012 - Stims start 7/2, ER 7/12, 20 retrieved, 16 mature, 13 fertilized!
ET - 7/17 - 1 blast transferred. Beta - 7/26 273, Beta 2 7/30 - 1143. Beta 3 8/6 - 11,597
12/25 - Santa tells us "IT'S A GIRL!" EDD - April 4th
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I had expected something for our two year anniversary (March) and was beginning to give up hope by June. Any time we went away I would get my hopes up that something would happen and when it did not I always got upset. In September I proposed to him and he said yes but was super uncomfortable about it so we kept quiet. Due to confusion on his side he did not realize how serious I was and we ended up deciding we were no longer engaged but still wanted to be together. I was heart broken. I finally told him in early December that I was done waiting and if I was not the one then he needed to decide on what to do next. He officially proposed just before NYE but I don't know what would have happened if we had not been totally honest with each other.
The moral of the story is to put on big girl pants, have an honest and serious conversation about where you stand and trust your SO to do what is right, whether good or bad.