So are there any rules to this? I just bought my dress (Maggie Sottero - Tuscany in alabaster). Leaning towards maybe a headband, but I'm not opposed to a vail. A lot of the headband styles I like are very jeweled and vintage looking (similar to the dress). Is it better to do a more subtle head piece with a dress that has lots of beading? What is your opinion ladies? My hair will be in a messy low bun with some braids. Thanks!