I'd like to somehow honor my fiance's work in our wedding because it is meaningful to him and consumes so much of our lives. He's a police officer and a reservist in the Air Force. I'd like to *subtly* incorporate military/police elements in our wedding. This could be a thing, a color, a flower, other visuals, an accessory, a song, etc.- anything that isn't over the top. Does anyone have any creative suggestions? One thing I'm considering is that instead of wedding favors, we could make a donation in each guest's honor to the police survivor's fund or wounded warrior project. Is that appropriate to do?