Ok Ladies.. my question is above. Both my fiance and I do not drink. He doesn't drink AT ALL. And I might have 1 drink of something once a year. We are having a very heartfelt heirloom vintage backyard wedding. I say this because I am 29 and my father just passed away from cancer unexpectedly, and 6 months later my aunt passed away from cancer. We are incorporating many things from them into our wedding. Also many things from our grandparents and such that are no longer here. I have chosen to walk halfway down the aisle unassisted with just the spirit of my father beside me and then my step father will assist me the rest of the way down. Basically what I am getting at is this will be a very emotional day for both of us. If neither of us drink should we will provide alcohol for our guest. Not to mention we are on a $5000 budget with my photographer being $2000 (i will not skimp on my photographer lol). I do want everyone to be able to relax and enjoy themselves after the emotional ceremony. what do you think?