My wedding was kind of different in that people had agreed early on that to stay in the riverhouse they would pay me $100 (that included 2 nights of staying in this mansion on the river I rented for all the guests to stay in, 5 meals other than the one at the wedding, free unlimited drinks for all that time, a tube to use on the river and a shuttle there and back, etc). Everyone has paid except a married couple (the wife was the person who months ago most told me that of course it was ok to charge people that much because otherwise they'd have to stay at a hotel, etc).
Can I ask if she paid me? It's different than asking if somebody gave me a gift becasue this was an agreed upon thing before the wedding. What do y'all think? Thanks.