My boyfriend of 2.5 years asked me to marry him this weekend. I was completely shocked and didn't see it coming! We'd spoken a lot about getting married, and I knew that eventually we would, but I had no idea that he'd been saving for a ring or planning anything. I really thought it was some ways off. Anyway, he took me to the Bayshore marina at sunset and gave me a beautifiul photo album with pictures from our first date, and where we had our first kiss, etc. The last picture being an empty ring box. It was perfect!
But, now, I have no idea where to begin! I know it's weird, but I always thought I'd get married at town hall, and my entire family and my future hubby's family are basically telling me that it is not an option. I've never looked at wedding anything, so I have no plans about what to do or where to start. I even feel like it's mildly self-indulgent to be looking at wedding dresses and considering venues, and I feel a little guilty about doing it. Did anyone else have this reaction? Any ideas on how to get over it?