My fiance and I recently bumped into a "friend" we see a few times a year. He's one of our groomsmen's best friends, so we don't see him often. When we were saying good bye to him, he straight up asked if he was invited to our wedding, because he didn't receive a save the date. My fiance was relatively smooth and told him we haven't sent them out yet, which we haven't, and that we were waiting for the 6th month marker.
He's also engaged and getting married a month prior to us and we don't expect to be invited or really care to attend his wedding.
I'm not a huge fan of this person and we hadn't intended on inviting him, but feel relatively obligated. How do we break the news if he's confrontational!?