Hi ladies, I'm throwing my SIL's shower and was wondering if anyone had a good timeline breakdown or checklist for me to use as guidance? Her wedding is June 14th... I was planning to start after the new year but time has gotten away from me
I'm thinking my first step would be to get MIL, SMIL, MOH and any bridesmaids who were interested in hosting together for a lunch maybe next weekend so we can decide what our budget is.
How involved is your bride in her shower? I was always under the impression (I didn't have a shower for my wedding, actually that is thanks to SIL who flaked but I'm trying not to hold onto that grudge
haha) that a shower is a gift to the bride, so they should have no part of the planning process, aside from the guest list, unless she is directly asked.