So my FSIL got engaged on NYE, and though I'm not yet engaged, I will be soon, according to my boyfriend "by summertime" and it will overlap my FSIL's engagement. I was just wondering about the etiquette with two engagements in the family going on at the same time, and how I can make sure that it doesn't feel like we're stealing the attention away from her and her engagement and her wedding. We get along super well and talk wedding all the time, but I just want to make sure that I don't step on her toes I'm also concerned about having similar wedding tastes and ideas, how can we make sure that our weddings are both exactly what we want, without having them be too similar.