Two questions.
1. Are padrinos and padrinas typically assigned or does the person offer to be one? I've asked my FI and, frankly, he said he has no idea. He doesn't identify with being his culture as much as the rest of his family does. FI's brother and his wife assigned people to pay for everything in their wedding. No asking, just made a list and said, "You pay for this, you pay for this, and you pay for this." FI knows because they ASSIGNED him to pay for their DJ. To the both of us, that's incredibly rude and not an option. We'd like to pay for most, if not all of the wedding ourselves.
2. Are padrinos/padrinas strictly for Christian weddings? I know the tradition originated so there would be sponsors during the ceremony for things like the lasso, the rings, the rosary, etc. but it's definitely evolved over time. As you can tell from my previous point, padrinos now apparently can pay for anything, but I'm still not sure if it's still a Christian thing to have them. We won't be having a Christian wedding at all.
We'd be happy with no padrinos, but some of FI's family has already asked about it or expressed interest. I think letting a Tia or two chip in for smaller things, if they offer, is okay, but I want to be clear and don't want to mislead any family members who may approach us about this.
Thanks in advance to anyone who has info on this.