My parents are divorced and I have a very strained relationship with my mom because of it. I lived with her even though I wanted to go with my dad, and moved out when I was 19 because all we did was scream at each other. It's important to note that my mom is not contributing any money to the wedding whatsoever; my dad is footing 95% of the bill. However, in her mind, I should have a $400 aisle runner, the bridal shower should be at a restaurant of her choosing instead of my future aunt-in-laws home (which is perfect), and I have no business wearing my leather jacket to get from the hotel to the car because I should be in a fur wrap instead. She completely steps all over my fiance and I's taste and borderline insults some of my person choices. And then, if I do stand up to her, she pouts and makes snide remarks like a teenager! The wedding is still 9 months away. I do have a relationship with her; it's not like we don't speak, so not discussing wedding plans really isn't a feasible option. Has anyone else been in a similar situation and navigated it with less issues?