I need advice! My mom just texted me a picture of the dress she bought for my wedding and its basically white: Solid beading in cream and white over taupe fabric. The taupe fabric that shows through makes up 5% of the dress, and 95% is a thick, cream beading. She is also my Matron of Honor, so she will be standing next to me during the ceremony. I can't help but be upset about this, am I out of line? My fiance and my sister say that I should let it go and let someone else hint that it may be inappropriate. Are they right? I feel like I should tell her that it's not her wedding, so a white dress is not appropriate.
My mom asked me what I thought of the dress and I just said that I was surprised by her choice...that I was used to seeing her in a more talored/classic look. I think she was a little hurt that I wasn't gushing over it, and she kept pushing, asking what I didn't like about it. I was on the spot, and didn't know what to do, so I said that if she liked it/felt good in it, then that was all that mattered. She still seemed upset at the end of our conversation, and now I'm not sure how to handle things. Do I tell her what I really think or let her wear what she wants?