Uh Oh. I'm sure you've heard it before...We are having an intimate vow renewal (I should probably put that in my signature so I don't have to keep typing it) and we are keeping the guest list at 60 people.
We have two sons who will be 7 and 10 at the time who are standing up as my husbands groomsmen (except it isn't a wedding so we aren't sure what to call them).
Originally we had meant to invite our friends and their children and then when we sat down and made the list, the kids ate our list and we could only invite about 10 of our friends and then our family. That wasn't going to work.
So then we thought, maybe we'd only invite the children of the attendants (yes this is our faux pas we are having our sons and brother and sister and 2 best friends stand up with us to share in our special day to signify how they helped us make it through 10 years) and the daughter of my one friends who is traveling in for the celebration. Well my mother says this is very rude and will stir up trouble.
However if start to invite all my friends and their kids the guest list goes over 100 people and that is a really cut down guest list leaving a lot of people out that would expect to be invited and I would want to be there.
So is this acceptable? I've talked to two friends who both said they would love a night out alone but not sure everyone would feel that way. I'm learning here so would just love to see what you have to say.