My maid of honor is my best friend. Our friendship before I got engaged was rocky..as she started to only call or get together when she needed something. I care about her and wanted to keep our friendship so I asked her to be the moh (also she is the only briedesmaid that lives here)
I have a little over 4 months before the wedding and she hasn't come to me at all about setting up a bridal shower, ordered her dress, or tried to come with me to any appointments (shes a stay at home mom, so her schedule is fairly open and I try to work around it as much as possible) I don't want to set up my own shower, as I feel I cant handle more on my plate. Is it selfish of me to want a shower, or want more participation from her? Ive sent her the knots article on duties of a moh to give her a guide, and I feel it did no good.
What do I do? Im not one who likes confrontation, I care for her and do not want this to ruin the friendship. Do I need to rethink my moh?