Luckily this didn't quite happen to me, but it was a close call!
Backstory: I am in a wedding next month, and received an email from the bride yesterday with some day-of info. She mentioned that she wanted us all to wear "minimal, silver jewelry." OK fine, nothing really wrong with that. I responded "sounds great!" and the other bridesmaids did as well. Then I received a text message from the bride about 30 minutes later saying "I've been thinking about it, and I've decided that I'll still allow you to wear your engagement ring even though it's yellow gold."
Um... thanks?
She hasn't been an overly demanding bride through the whole process, and this whole exchange was just very shocking to me. I fear that she's now thinking she's being suuuch an understanding bride, "allowing" me to wear my engagement ring even though it goes against her "vision" or whatever.
Has anything this absurd ever happened to any of you? Do you have any tips on how I should react to her, if at all? I kind of got out of having to directly respond to her, since she followed up that text with an unrelated question. I don't know if I should "lecture" her or anything, but just letting it go seems kind of weird too...