Okay ladies, every time I venture to the big boards...well it's generally not a nice experience so I'm asking this here. I'm having this debate about the invites, which i need to order very soon so I can package them to go on an overseas trip in a couple months. Why risk international mail when we can pack them and hand deliver?
We are doing a seated dinner but each table with have their own waiters and select items they want table side as the waiters float around with food. We liked this because then you can make whatever meal combo you want without having to wander around to food stations. Its really a cross between seated and buffet style.
Should we include a menu card in the invitation so people at least have some idea what we're serving? Or do we just do the standard attending/not attending RSVP card and make no mention of the meal and place menus on the tables at the reception?
As a guest do you mind walking in blind to the meal or prefer to see what's in store?