My friend is getting married in 3 months and I had originally thought I would be around for her wedding but now because my fiancé took a job across the country we have to move a couple weeks before her wedding (because of his start date). her and I have grown apart quite a bit since her and her fiancé got together and she hasn't been a great friend to me. When she asked me to be in her wedding I agreed mostly to maintain peace in our relationship but I really don't expect us to keep in contact once I've moved away. I would just suck it up and come back for the wedding but airfare plus all of the other expenses that go with being a bridesmaid would really add up. Anyone have any experiences like this? Any advice?