When my fiancé got engaged in September, I decided that my best friend of 8 years would be my MOH. She has been there with me through everything since we were 17, and it just made sense. My sister (who is 6 years younger than me, 19) had a little bit of an issue with this at first, but seemed to get over it. She attends college 4 hours away, and would be gone during the most crucial stages of planning, not to mention planning and bridal shower and bachelorette party would be impossible for her.) Now, she's in an uproar about the entire thing, and making snarky comments anytime we talk about wedding planning. Is this something I'm just going to hope she gets over? It's driving me nuts. Thanks for your advice in advance!