We have a little bit of an issue in that my fiance and I have both been married previously, and between the two of us, we have everything we need for our home. When we met, he owned his home and I had my apartment with furnishings. In fact, we're struggling with where to put everything. At a family gathering, we were approached a few times about gift ideas. We politely told everyone that we really don't need anything and for us, just having our family together and friends with us would be the best gift we could ever receive. An aunt insisted that we need to register somewhere, but we really and truly don't need anything! So the aunt came up with an idea that we have a money tree at the reception and asked if they can spread the word that this would be available.
I do not want to ask anyone for money. I am travel agent, so in asking them for a contribution to the "honeymoon fund," I still feel awkward. The aunt suggested that we tell everyone that it was her idea and explained to me this would make it acceptable but I still feel so nervous about it.
Does anyone have an idea on how to handle this situation? I understand them wanting to give us something, but we didn't decide to have a wedding in order to get gifts - our wedding is centered around our family and friends and to us, that is the most important thing! Does anyone have an alternative idea (besides a "fund" or some sort that they would give to as this is still asking for money)?
I am a nursing student (at the young age of 44!) and my fiance is a mail carrier. I have tried and tried to come up with something but I'm just at a loss!
Thank you all for your suggestions!