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Friend is in love with a guy that uses her for sex...
I don't want to judge anyone, but I'm at the end of my rope. Title says it all. This girl is awesome and is a great friend but she just cannot pick guys. Every relationship she's been in has been drastically physically or mentally abusive. The guy she's in love with now currently dated her for a month before leaving her because he "wasn't good enough for her" (his words) but allows her to sleep with him, come over to his house to stay the night with him and allows her to buy things for him. When he dumped her I had to talk her out of killing herself on Christmas Eve. Now over half a year later she still talks obsessively about him everyday and sleeps with him a few times a week. He likes other girls on Facebook and posts all the time about how he wants to find a great girl, but my friend still believes he's the one. He is obviously using her and no matter how many times I talk to her about it she insists he's her knight in shining armor. He insists that the reason they areNt together is because that it isn't the right time, that other people will try to break them up, and that he isn't ready. I think these are all BS reasons and that he is only keeping her around until someone else comes along. There is a wonderful guy that is head over heels for her and fits all of her wants in a man but she refuses to give him or anyone else a chance because of this guy. I defended her against him one time after Christmas and she ended up siding with him! I usually would just let this slide off my shoulders but we are on vacation together and she won't stop obsessing over him! I can't stand it anymore! What is it gonna take for this girl to see that he's using her?
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