I know I should've sent out thank you cards right after my shower, but there just wasn't any time. My shower was only two weeks before the wedding, then I went out of town almost immediately for my bachelorette weekend, then when I got back I ended up having to find a new wedding dress and replace three members of the wedding party the week of the wedding. And in the middle of all that I had to fire an employee and prepare for being out of the office for a week for my honeymoon, so needless to say my stress level was at about 100%. Now that everything has settled down I need to get my thank you cards sent out. I know that typically you should send one thank you for a shower gift and another thank you for the wedding gift, but the majority of the guests at my shower didn't give a second gift for the wedding itself, not even a card. Can I send one thank you card for both the shower gift and for attending the wedding, since there's no additional gift or card to mention?