My Fiance and I are postponing our wedding which was supposed to be March 2014 to Novemeberish 2014. I was thinking we should have it on Thanksgiving because all his family well the important members go and meet up at his church and share a dinner. I was thinking since everyone will be in town and in a church we could have two celebrations. We really don't plan to have a lavish wedding with a ton of people which is why I like this idea since it will be the most important members and it will be small and meaningful, but I do not know if it is rude or not to have it on that day or the day after.