My wedding is in July of 2015 and we are starting to plan who will be in the WP. I have two older sisters who both have two kids (a boy and girl) and my FI has a older brother that has a daughter and one on the way (due in Nov). We were thinking that we would have one kid from each family (total of 3 kids) be in the wedding but how old is too old to be a flower girl/ ring bearer?
My youngest nephew will be 4, and my youngest niece will be 2 at the time of our wedding so I know they will be cute being the flower girl/ ring bearer. Where I run into a age question is my FI niece will be 7. My mom suggested having her be a Jr bridesmaid but I don't think she would corporate walking up the aisle, standing for the ceremony, and then walking back down the aisle (I know at 7 kids are not "mature" but she acts way younger for her age and often does not listen or corporate well). At 7 would it be ok to have her walk with the younger ones as a flower girl?
I would prefer to just use the two young one but we are trying to keep things even across the families. I'm probably just over thinking things but I just want to do the proper thing
Thanks everyone!