I was engaged before and when the engagement was broken off I told my sister that when I did get married that she would be my moh. Sense then we have become a lot less close and she has other issues in her life. My best friend is the one that wants to be there for me and do things with me wedding related and I think that if she does the work she should have the title. I love my sister and I would love to plan my wedding with her but that doesn't seem like it's going to happen. So I will plan it with someone that might as well be my sister. Tia