Am I bad a bride for not being involved in the planning process?
We got engaged while traveling and won't be back home until November. We have already decided (well, I kind of decided when I was like 12..) that we'd like to be married in early fall so towards the end of September. Next year of course, we don't want to wait for any longer than that. Thing is, after we get back I'll be heading off to work for 6 months in the field (leaving in February), where there will be little time for planning. FI has said that it's ok, he's very supportive and said that we'll get a planner and he will keep me in the loop for feedback but still he's going to be doing the bulk of it. I trust his decisions and taste, we are into the same everything really. But it seems unfair that he planned such a great proposal and now he's going to plan a wedding and all I'll have done is say "Yes" and "I do". Well... I'll pick out a dress. Somehow. So yeah, this work opportunity is not something I want to pass on but am I being selfish?