I feel like I know the answer to this but I feel the need to rant a little and get everyones opinions. Every wedding I have been to (give or take maybe 1 or 2) have had uneven wedding parties. There was a greek wedding that I went to where there were 5 groomsmen and 18 bridesmaids. So now it comes to my wedding and I have just added bridesmaid number 6. My FI has 4 groomsmen. As stated above neither of us see a problem with this....but as always someone does. FMIL has been giving my FI crap about this stating that he needs more closer friend and almost bullying him about this. She has also stated I didnt need to add this one and that if my FI could not find another to match the first 5 then I would then need to kick out someone else out....that is not happening. I am not ruining friendships over one rude person. She has also said things about how awkward my wedding will look and how awful my wedding pictures will be with an uneven number. My FI has talked to his mom but she keeps on about this. I have asked many times if this is getting to him and it is not. He is in the same boat as me that once again that FMIL is being silly. I tried to make it even when I told her that my FSIL (who is currently a bridesmaid) could go stand on the groomside but that was taken as an insult quickly and thrown back in my face. I guess I just need to know is this really that big of deal. As stated above I really do not see it has being one...I just want opinions and what better place to that than here!