I'm starting to think about wording for our wedding invitations and could use the good advice of you etiquette experts regarding verbiage around my fiancé's military rank. Using the construct of "You are cordially invited to the wedding of..." do we finish by stating:
(A) Jane Middlename Smith to Colonel John Middlename Doe, United States Air Force
(B) Jane Middlename Smith to Col John Middlename Doe, USAF
(c) Jane Middlename Smith to John Middlename Doe (no mention of affiliation)
And on our return envelopes (we're self hosting and receiving in the RSVPs), would we use "Col John Doe and Ms. Jane Smith, 123 Wedding Drive,..."?
Thank you for your input!