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Breathe

gothic_fairy60gothic_fairy60 member
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The next person who tells me to breathe is getting punched in the face!

I also keep getting asked if I am nervous, to which I don't know how to answer. I am nervous, but not about FI. I have been planning this thing all by myself for 2 years and in 7 days it is all gonna happen. I can't help feel like I forgot something....

"You must be nervous, its okay. Just breathe and everything will be fine."
"Just breathe, your wedding will be beautiful"
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  • LizzieyounceLizzieyounce member
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    When I was 7 days out, I decided that unless something major was forgotten, I gave no fucks.  The only thing that made me tense was making sure the RD went well, because it was an open house for all of our guests, at our home.  I was stressing about having enough food.  We did, and we had left overs!

    Just go over your check list a couple of times to make sure.  It will all be fine, I promise.

    Wine helps.  But don't Just Breathe and Drink at the same moment, because: it stings, makes you choke and could be messy.
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  • gothic_fairy60gothic_fairy60 member
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    Lizzieyounce said:
    When I was 7 days out, I decided that unless something major was forgotten, I gave no fucks.  The only thing that made me tense was making sure the RD went well, because it was an open house for all of our guests, at our home.  I was stressing about having enough food.  We did, and we had left overs!

    Just go over your check list a couple of times to make sure.  It will all be fine, I promise.

    Wine helps.  But don't Just Breathe and Drink at the same moment, because: it stings, makes you choke and could be messy.
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    yes it does lol. That's the last ting I need right? Cleaning wine out of my carpet.

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  • LizzieyounceLizzieyounce member
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    Yup. Good luck to you!
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  • melbensomelbenso member
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    How about this instead, then: Congrats and have a great time at your wedding.  I'm sure everything will be amazing.
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  • vh2014vh2014 member
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    Wine helps.  But don't Just Breathe and Drink at the same moment, because: it stings, makes you choke and could be messy.
    This made me laugh OUT LOUD... was skimming the board at work and I'm with OP, sick of being told to breathe.  Want to say...don't worry... if I turn blue and pass out I'll take your advice but last I checked I was breathing already. Geez. Haha.


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  • Maggie0829Maggie0829 member
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    I hated being asked if I was getting nervous.  Why in the world would I be nervous?  I was excited and happy but not even close to be nervous.

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  • Bubblegum5586Bubblegum5586 member
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    I think all these people mean well as frustrating as it can be, I HATE seeing brides getting all worked up before the wedding, I did a little bit, and looking back I wish I never got all worked up. My day was great - plenty of little mistakes happened - but I married my husband and that's all I really wanted!

    So I try to tell brides to calm down without sounding condensending. So I don't say "just breath" but remind them the purpose of the day and how happy they will be!
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  • goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 member
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    Yay!  It is so close!  

    You got this shizz under control.  And you've been breathing since the day you were born so I'm pretty sure that's under control too.
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  • gothic_fairy60gothic_fairy60 member
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    Thanks ladies!
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  • Marzipan13Marzipan13 member
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    I FEEL YOU, OP.  My wedding is 1 month from Wednesday, and everyone keeps saying "ooh, are you getting nervous?", "just remember, everything will be fine", "don't be nervous, it will be great", yadda yadda.  People assume that I'm stressed, and I'm so not stressed.  (Ask me in another 10 days, maybe I will be.)
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