I was posting on someone else's thread and this question popped in my mind. So I'm putting it to the forum!
I want a nice hotel room for my first night as a Mrs. My FMIL wants a nice hotel as well. We've found a nice place that does complementary blocks for about $180 per night - a little expensive. Generally when I stay at hotels I try to aim for $100-$150 per night. However, for many of the guests this rate likely won't be an issue.
But for some guests, it might. I want to make sure my guests aren't too put-out coming to the wedding, while those who want to fancy it up a bit have the option as well. So I figured I'd reserve blocks at another hotel, about 10 minutes away, at a more affordable rate - likely about $130 per night. We'll be providing shuttles to and from both hotels, which are almost equidistant to the ceremony and reception site.
But is it rude to have an upscale hotel and a more reasonable hotel? Is it classifying my guests between the 'rich' hotel and the 'poor' hotel? I really don't want to be rude, but I know my MIL and all for FI's family would prefer the nicer hotel (and they are paying for about half the wedding) and I'll admit, I really want a fancy hotel room for the one night. I want to splurge on that. Am I putting my needs ahead of being good to my guests, or is it considered OK to offer the option to guests based on their preferences?
Thanks!
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