So i'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I asked my "best friend" to be in my bridal party last november. My wedding is 4 months away and she is totally MIA. She was the one bridesmaid that was so excited about my bachelorette and was helping me plan and now she has told my MOH, but not me, that she isn't coming. I am also hosting a bridesmaids night at my house and she says she's already got plans. She doesn't text anymore, doesn't call, and when I reach out to her just to say "hi" or start a conversation she just stops answering me (this may sound petty but we were very close and talked almost everyday). Unfortunately for her, social media enables me to see that she is still having a social life outside of our group of friends and is on her phone constantly. So I can't chock it up to she's busy…she's just straight-up ignoring me! She has stopped talking to our group of friends and has drifted to another and that is not what bothers me, what bothers me is my friendship with her has totally changed. Pretty much it seems like she does not care about me and does not care about my wedding. I don't know how to handle this. Do I really want someone there on my big day that I feel I no longer have a relationship with? I mean i'll have these pictures FOREVER! Do I want to worry about that on my wedding day with all the additional stressors? I need an outsiders opinion please...