Y'all, I went to a wedding this weekend that was a hot mess of broken etiquette.
First, they included registry cards in their invites.
Second, I got the invite on July 23 for an August 16 wedding. RSVP deadline? July 26th. It was not lost in the mail, I am close to the family and I know when they mailed them, etc.
On Saturday, I offered to pitch in to decorate. It was me, my mom, 2 aunts, the MOG and nobody else. No bride, no groom, no bridal party, no coordinator. Nothing. It took us hours. They had a cash bar. Soda and water were THREE DOLLARS. My dad and I literally got glasses from the bar and went to the water fountain.
The DJ was not a professional, so he had my mom come help him arrange the bridal party. Mind you, my mom is in no way related to the bride or groom. He kept coming over to my mom asking what he should do next. There was roughly 45 minutes of toasting, EVERYONE in the bridal party toasted.
At the end of the night, I had to clean up.