My fiance' doesn't seem to want any groomsmen he said he is fine with it being just the two of us. However, I'm contemplating whether I need a bridesmaid to help me with the wedding planning, hold my boutique, hold my dress train, hold the rings, etc. Do I need a go to girl? Or has anyone been married without a bridal party? How did you organize everything without a bridal party? I want at least one bridesmaid because there is one friend in particular that is eager to help me plan my wedding and she just got married so I know she can be helpful and supportive. She even offered to host my bridal shower which I completely forgot about! I just feel like if I include her I will be obligated to include my SIL and one of my bossy friend's who demanded I make her a MOH so she can boss the bridal party around or she will just sit and watch because she refuses to be a bridesmaid. I don't know why she feels so strongly about the title when we have completely opposite taste. I'm very girly and she is a tomboy and she said she would boss my bridal party around and have them wear gauchos and sneakers......not sure if she was joking but I wasn't laughing at all. I don't want to offer someone something they demanded to have but don't deserve.
I feel like no matter what I do there will be some drama with or without help from a bridal party. I have no idea what to do but I can see this getting out of hand and with every bridesmaid a groomsmen added as well, which my fiance' doesn't want even when one of the groomsmen is his best friend. How can I help us both get what we want and avoid the drama?