I'm picking out some music for the wedding (11 days ahh!) and the DJ asked about the garter toss. I honestly do not want everyone to see FI up my skirt. I think it's really embarrassing. I'm also not a fan of the guy slipping the garter on the bouquet catcher. It can sometimes get a little rated R and we have a lot of kids at the wedding. I do want to do the bouquet toss and maybe even just hand FI a garter to toss? and maybe just leave it be? Is this weird and I'm being a Debbie downer? I want everyone to have a good time but I just don't want to embarrass myself in the process..