Hello everyone,
I'm looking for tactful / etiquette-approved ideas for a registry where we really don't "need" anything for the next couple years. Many of my original ideas were "etiquette breaches" so before I proceed, I thought I'd get your ideas.
Long version: I'm in the military and just got stationed away from my fiance (we'll be apart for a couple more years). We decided to go ahead and get married (vice waiting for me to retire and move back) and because we will be apart, I originally wasn't going to register for anything. He has his household, I have mine, and we won't know until we move together what "we" need. I don't want to waste people's time or money buying stuff. Then reading through the posts in this and other wedding sites, I see that you might as well register because people are going to buy gifts whether you want them or not. So I thought of some other ideas: in lieu of gifts, send us a page with your best wedding advice, or send us your favorite books, resources, etc for having a great marriage. Or even registering for travel through sites like honeyfund.
We could just not register, but then he is from the South and apparently you *must* register (smile). I've not decided one way or another and I'm hoping one of you "strangers on the internet" will have some great ideas for registry kinds of things I may not have thought about.