So RSVP date is today. Last night I get a text from my uncle who lives in FL - I'm in CT. He tells me he sent his RSVP back earlier in the week and apologized for it being so close to the RSVP. Then he tells me how many are attending and meals. I only invited him and my Aunt. He tells me 1 chicken 4 beef so he is bring his 3 sons (my cousins). Who I have never met. The youngest is a senior in high school. I didnt invite them since I figured 2 days home alone is not a big deal. I have only seen my Uncle a handful of times in my adult life. The first time I saw him ince I was a toddler was my freshman year of college. I really only invited him to be respectful. I didn't think he would come. My older sister didn't even bother.
Now I am stuck in this situation as to let it slide or speak up. We are paying for a majority of the wedding ourselves. I'm stuck.