I am a bridesmaid in an upcoming wedding. There's at least 4 other bridesmaids, with the wedding now just two months out. I have never met any of the other girls and the bride hasn't really mentioned them. I'm the only local one. Her MOH, however, has contacted me via text asking if I had been trying to get in touch with her. When I told her no, I did take the opportunity to follow up and ask if she wanted to plan to do a bridal get together while she was in town visiting and she declined. I shrugged it off but thought it was a little odd she had texted.
So far, I have been the one helping with everything, which is fine. I am happy to help. However, I am now feeling swamped. I think bachelorette party planning would be a good way for the other girls to get involved. How would it be best to communicate that this should be a team effort ? I am afraid that the bride and MOH may both have assumed I will be taking the lead and I am feeling like this is not my position.