My parents are divorced and my father married the woman he left my mom for 10 years ago. I get along with Stepmom fine, we just aren't close.
We haven't printed out our programs yet, but the proof reads:
Parents of Bride
Mom's name
Dad's name
Parents of Groom
Mom and Dad's name
My Dadzilla has been up in arms about including his wife in every aspect possible and I'm trying to be understanding and sensitive, but UGHHHH. He loves being the center of attention and he's annoyed that his wife isn't included on the program now too. She had no part in raising me and I feel weird acting like she's my "parent."
Any suggestions on how to change the program to accommodate Dadzilla's wants without it being weird? Should I do away with the program altogether? I'm so embarrassed of this by back and forth with my father. And I don't want my mom to feel alone and single. My FI has been so understanding but even his patience with Dadzilla is growing thin.