I feel very blessed to come from a family full of great marriages, but my FI has not been so lucky..
His parents are divorced and constantly doing little things to poke the fire and start trouble for each other. And of course, my FI is the one in the middle getting the brute of it all! We had both parties finally agree on how to split up the grooms side budget:
MIL: rehearsal dinner and grooms cake
FIL: match MIL expenses goes towards alcohol bar tab
Well, the rehearsal dinner invitations come around and of course the invite says "hosted by MIL" nothing about the FIL. Both sides agreed on what they were paying for and FIL didn't help plan anything for the rehearsal dinner, BUT was that little stick in the side necessary, to completely leave him off the invite? I can see both sides, but now we're stuck in an all out battle just 25 days before our wedding!
I have never dealt with divorce before and I really need some suggestions on how other brides out there handled having the family all together on the same day! Did you seat them together, do you keep them as far away as you can, what about for pictures? Any tips at all are more than appreciated! And how do I help out my FI, he feels terrible and can't really chose sides...