I have recently reconnected with an old friend from high school. We both moved back home after college and have been seeing each other regularly. Both my MOH and FI are not big fans of her, we were all in the same crowd in high school and they never really got along well. She is invited to the wedding but my mom has suggested including her in the bridal party, at first I shrugged it off but the more I think about it the more I think I should include her. We were good friends in high school and our relationship has been getting stronger the more we see each other. We have become gym buddies and she has been really helping me get in shape for the wedding and we talk about the wedding ALOT. I know that my friend would love to be included and that it would mean a lot to her. The only problem is my bridal party is very small, just my MOH and my FSIL(who I am really not close to at all). I feel like it is so petty that they are still upset over things that happened in high school but they also haven't seen each other since then so I understand the feelings. FI said he doesn't care if she is a BM but I don't want to hurt my MOH's feelings by including someone she really doesn't like in the bridal party especially when I was never really expecting to ask her anyway. Could I include her in some other way?