Hi everyone!
I'm getting married next September and my fiance and I decided we don't want young children (13 and under) attending. This really only pertains to his side of the family, they have several young kids who we can't see behaving through a ceremony and reception. I don't really know how to handle this...I'm 24 and haven't been to many weddings let alone planned one.
One of my future SIL's has recommended making a note on the invitation to the effect of "No Children Under 13 Please"...is that rude to put on an invitation? Should we reach out to them individually instead?