My sister and I are not that close. I tend to get very frustrated with her as she turns everything around to be about her. Long story short, she is due to have a baby in late January. I don't want the baby at my wedding. We are paying for our own wedding, and neither FI or myself want any children with the exception of my (then) 15 year old daughter at the wedding. I want to make it implicitly clear, however, I know what is going to happen. Family drama. My father getting mad at me, my sister saying it's not fair. Yeah, sure it isn't fair, but I really don't want a baby at my wedding.
Put me on the list of "evil bitch sister", I don't care. But how I go about telling her this is a hard thing. If that means she doesn't show, she saves me a headache of having to deal with her in the first place. You might ask, "Why even invite her in the first place?", 1, my dad won't have it (and he's not even involved in the planning or paying of the wedding), 2, she invited me to hers (which she ignored me at, mind you, and we drove 1,000 miles to attend her wedding and she barely acknowledged us).
Huge dilemma. It has us at the point of saying "f*** it, let's elope", but I am NOT leaving my FI's family out of this as this is his first wedding and their first-born son. Plus I really want them to be there. My family?? Not so much.
Edited why does TK hate me and won't allow paragraphs on my laptop? It's one thing on the iPad/iPhone, but the laptop Chrome browser too? Sigh.